Dear sisters, for you and for your future

DEAR SISTERS,  THESES ARE FOR YOU AND FOR YOUR FUTURE AS WELL

1. My sisters, don't play around with a man's feelings if you have no intention of developing a relationship with him, heartbreaks destroys people and creates monsters. Take care of yourself, look good and be happy, but don't overdo it, don't kill yourself trying to look expensive because most average brother don't even know the difference between wife and woman.

2.Most ladies are single because a lot of brothers are getting everything they want without being in a relationship. Like seriously, how do you expect him to marry you when you are already giving him the benefits of a husband.

3. You are checking him to see if he is a stingy man, he's also testing you if you are wife material. The bitter truth is there is no such thing as a stingy man, it's either he's broke or he doesn't see you as someone worth spending his money on.

4. Don't be cheated my sister, you will never see two sisters fighting over a good man. Because a good man will never put you in a situation of not knowing where you stand with him. But if you love two men at the same time.

5. Men are different just like women, but 75% of good brothers that never cheat are the ones you see in "friendzone" and "brotherzone". These brothers know everything about you and they want nothing but the best for you, but the sad thing is you 've been blinded by the words "type" and “class". You just want your crush, well it's your choice, but I must tell you that the brother you are crushing on has other sisters crushing on him, probably he too has a crush on another sister My dear, don't be to emotionally attached to a man unless he's into you otherwise one sided expectations can mentally destroy you.

6. Next time you visit your so called fiance(intended brother) at his place, leave your shoes deliberately at his doorstep as you enter his house. If he takes them inside, you are a side chick.

8. My sister, stop degrading and undermining yourself before brother because one day that brother will dump you and get married to a decent lady then use you as a testimony in on his weeding day.

7. Most men can take advantage of a woman once they realize she has nothing valuable to offer in the relationship other than sex. Therefore, if as a woman you are financially unstable, find something to do, be a career orientated woman and in the end men of substance will notice you. I'm talking about real men here, men who work hard, men who hustle, men who are doing the best they can to create a better future for themselves.Be the kind of woman a man would be proud to introduce to his parents. Lastly Be a supportive figure in the success of your man . Guide him where he sees no way.

9. If he says he loves you, let him prove it because love is not a noun to be defined but a verb to be acted upon. Never beg a man to be in your life if you text, call or visit him and still get ignored, walk away my friend , It's not pride but self respect. And if he treats you like an option narrow his choices by removing yourself out of the equation.

10: Always be straightforward type, be your true colour to avoid been put under question after your marriage. Because suspicion, lead many marriages to break up.

May Almighty God  guide us all towards the righteous path.