DD

Dd: Good morning ree,

Mom was very upset asking me last night" wats wrong with you both why you both are fighting from many days iam also watching " enough she said...

I didn't answer ree anything..

AZEEZ: What could be done please

Dd: Nothing sir, I just heard and kept quiet

AZEEZ: The reason why I suggested you to fix time to speak or quarrel.

It is an indication that I should not call you in the night

It is hard for you to respond me. I should not keep you in trouble. Because I proposed you in the beginning. Not you. And not till now. I guarentee you for your peace of mind henchforth please. I realised from you the way you screamed yesterday, would perfectly bring No peace in moms mind. I should not stand on the queue of unblessed people, by whom already she is suffering,  to spoil peace of mind of you both.

How communication is important for any tasks in life. Communication should bring a light in ones life. A hope and future in someones life.

Communication is not mere saying good morning, good evening or Love you.....I dont believe in this please. It is OK

Rejection is common in my life. I see colors of life and I am a bigg fool and Joker

Dd: Ree, why do you call yourself as fool. Mom didn't say anything at all about you. Let me be clear..When I asked you the time to talk at 5:00 or at 6:30,,, you said I can't. You don't know that ? I didn't reject any of your ways ! Only iam been showed of being useless, irresponsible, not reliable, disrespectful, no communication skills,,,no gratitude to wat your doing for my wellbeing, and so on...Then how do I react ? I spoke so loud cause your   saying me to shut my mouth and just listen, how cheaper it sounds or I felt. May be iam worthless for your expectations, but ree iam trying to be the way you want me to learn something. But you can say to me in many other ways..Why your treating me so badly, and it doesn't matter or I didn't mean to tell you that not to call during night time. See this had nothing to do with the subject at all and your thoughts are discriminating conversations in all possible ways of negativity ree towards me.

Iam making myself stronger not to give up on this shop issue because I have no source of income or no one to look or take care of me...Your not confident, or no trust means how do I show my seriousness and prove it ?

Iam feeling like iam dead after hearing all about me from your mouth ! I know wat iam, but iam not that bad either ree.

AZEEZ: Please be responded and by my side.

All other things are useless for you

Dd: Baye muchu this killed me ree.

If you go on your wish, you can. Believe Whom you wish. Who is there for me you only say, ree

AZEEZ: I dont know that

Dd: I have no wish at all, some hope you showed me and iam on it ree

AZEEZ: Many a times i tried you to come up. You dont support for yourself. I cannot do anything

Dd: Wat should I say now ? Iam doing my best ree..

AZEEZ: Simply indulging in unwanted and useless things.

Dd: What should I do ?

AZEEZ: Ok thats your personal. But dont involve me. I am tired of working on worthless people

Dd: Am I worthless ree ?

AZEEZ: I felt, something towards, you are more inclined. Nowhere I stand, sometimes i feel why so,

Dd: Here iam the only one person there are no one else here except you, then who is worthless ?

AZEEZ: These are words mm. I believed, but not true. Someone is calling you in singular by name in front of me. What should i feel? Good

Dd: I want to do this ree seriously, and now you say iam not true ?

AZEEZ: You are working on you to be worthless

Dd: Now who is calling me in singular and wat it has to do with the present situation ?Your talking about what I don't know ? Seriously ree ?

AZEEZ: So

That s right?

Recall, You remember

Dd: What to recall wat to remember ? Let it be anything, but why is all those things coming in the midst of this life changing turn in our lives ? What is this supposed to be ? Reply to me please sir. Are you not willing to give me some hope and lead me ? You have me to dream big and showed me to live on to myself and stay stable and not to worry about anyone or anything, and when iam building it up stronger to stay strong your saying that you don't see truth in me ?

What's on your mind ree open up and say it. This is your words, that means your words are all gone ? And your not going to be on the same page ok ! Ok ree. This is my life, you just made me a joker to make fun and prove iam good for you. Thanks ree. Why did you puta seed of desire to live my own life a new beginning and shattered me...why ?

Cause you have power to knowledge, power of money, power of people, and stand with nothing ? I will be on streets only so this is my fate you gave back...Do you know how much deep I have taken this and dreemed off and told to all my known people about it and to support me to come over my shop. And now you took me to the square one where I was. I will be a beggar, and you be happy for not wasting your time, space, money, energy on worthless...

You know ree even though you said so many things I called Eramma, spoke to her in good terms and to get working together for my shop ! I do what ever you say, but in return you tell things which has nothing to do about the further times which will be better ! Even mom was coming to understand what iam doing means I will do it,, she said you will do it...what ever she may have in her brain..You were so nice and happy with this and told me to be this way only and see where you will go, and it was going so well suddenly you remember some things of the past and damage the whole hope of mine where I did not do anything...i was moving accordingly to wards your path only...Where did I do wrong ?

I don't have money to do it by myself if i had also there is no one like you to show me the correct road to achieve about which I know nothing...I was so happy once in life time that people will see me and tell...see Daly where she is today,,,,,!

This is called day dreamer 🖤

Be happy relaxed and stay blessed,,, You have a happy family, children, Wonderful Wife, who is accordingly to your Protocol, yes you have a safe job, A Home to Dwell in Peace....and many sources for extra income. What else, ? God will provide you what ever you long for....iam worthless good for nothing. I will die working this way in hospital, and with your words around me every single moment.... worthless, useless people around me.. enough you have gone through..

Even in dreams I had saw the shop name as 2D also...if you want you can ask Eramma...You don't believe me no more fine.

Thank you any ways for showing me new dreams and new life atleast for a short period of time..

AZEEZ: I said you to change your attitude towards any business. It is a different world. No one around you can help here. Only clear vision and needs may guide you to work on it. Neither Erama, nor Goushia or Rajesh....work on it

But you need all to some extend and not into your deep root of life

Ofcourse when you fill so many elements in your heart to carry, one side this family, other side that family......naturally I dont get space from you to talk or say something about the task. I never get back from my promises. So many tasks you assigned me, I did it for No purpose. In return No courtesy. People use me and keep it away. You know i should beg to do things as if I m doing for me. You knew who you are and who I am.

Do accordingly to your soul sayings. You knew well who am I and who you are and what you are doing now. Do care about your health, life..... Things will be alright.

What are the Challenges of Global School Education and where India stand on that?

Mr. Ashish Bhatnagar.
MODERATOR.

TOPIC:

What are the Challenges of Global School Education and where India stand on that?

Group: National UN Volunteers.

Time: No limit. Whenever you wish to share your views you can. 6 am- 10pm

Aim and purpose of Education.

Education, at its best, is about helping people discover, refine, and develop their gifts, talents, passions and abilities; and then helping them discover how to use those gifts, talents, abilities in ways that benefit others and oneself

When the purposes are for the upliftment of our society, then no doubt is in to have number of challenges in global education system or local education system.

Challenge: 1

Right to education RTE.

We have existing learning organizations where learners are part of that organization for sime years without having a journey of discovery to discover what is within them till now.

We came to the point now as education the fundamental right of a man.

In real sense Education is life itself. It is not a right to claim. When shall we reach or take Education to the state of life from rights.

Challenge: 2

Testing & Assessment

Testing should exist as a servant to the main goals of education.

Whenever people start to build learning organizations and experiences around tests instead of designing tests to serve and amplify the organization’s mission, vision, and values; we have a problem. Such organisations will face lot of challenges to exist or to continue.

We should know here one thing. Education  itself a tool designed by nature to test users. Whereas we design a tool to test Education.

And the design is of the mindset of the designer. We consider him or her as the standard designer.

It can be explained with an example-A teacher of your school is a question setter of his subject. Means he is one of the designer of a tool to assess Education.

Can he be a standard designer.? Can a school assure of this?

Then where is the standard assessment or test? That's beyond our imagination and understanding.

If we get such a test then there won't be challanges in Education.

Therefore assessment or test is to assess the complete person as the Education is for shaping the complete man.

But our design for assessment is assesment of education in a person and not the outcomes of Education in that particular person.

Reminder: The purpose of Education is man making first.

Mr. Nahid Raza UNV: Yes sir

It is not possible in one go hence small pieces are worked on then only we will be able to do it

Challenge:3

Nurturing the nature of learners.

Character, virtues, and non-cognitive skills have always been an important part of a person’s growth and maturation, not only into adulthood but throughout life.

If we want to invest in aspects of education that have a huge impact on the lives of individuals, their families, their communities, their places of work, and the entire world around them; we are wise to devote time and attention to how we can nurture these important elements that less frequently show up in a list of learning objectives for a course or goals for a formal program.

We are talking about traits like grit, courage, conscientiousness, integrity, personal ownership, the capacity to postpone gratification, collaboration skills, the ability to plan and prioritize, and many others.

Nurturing aforementioned already existing nature in users of Education is the prime purpose of Education. But it is not happening in most of the learning organisations.

Challenge:4

Purpose of Education is misunderstood.

Formal and informal Education are the two categories of it. Formal is to detect the skill within. And informal is to develop and make use of it. Formal education is for learning and informal is for earning. That is for job opportunities and openings.

But what do we do is reverse. Our challenges are due to which when right things are chosen for wrong. That's Education for employment. Education is often about teaching people to critique, but that must be accompanied with nurturing the capacity to create, to discover and embrace the purpose and meaning in the world around us…and beyond. Education is not mere for employment. Education is not a passport or password access to a job.

The very purpose of Education is limited into one's qualification in our country or community.

Is it correct?

Mr. Paul Moses UNV:

Challenge 5:

Factors that affect learning.

Students of different countries have different capabilities owing to what they have learnt. Learning capacities also vary due to environment. We in India mostly follow rote method while learning. Most of the schools in India, including the so-called International schools, test students' memory instead of testing their intellectual abilities. Self-learning is hardly. Any learning process that makes students self-dependant is hardly found.
Free education up to some level is quite good. But if it extends the limit, especially for male candidates, the value of education and the course pursued is found to have diminished.

Mr. Ashish Bhatnagar UNV: CBSE is trying to change now. I can see many welcome changes to the syllabus, curriculum and approach now.

Mr. Paul Moses UNV: As we give value to money, what is paid, is similarly given value. Many in India are graduates but are jobless.

Mr. Ashish Bhatnagar UNV:  I hope the points you mentioned will be considered especially with the new NEP. Rote learning has been there for ages but there are some good signs I can see in some schools. Many changes have been there so far, but nothing proved to be very productive. It takes time to see some significant changes. May be, but it depends on the government. Rote learning is not completely bad. But it doesn't help any student develop his/her intellectual skills. We are still in the third world status; 72 yrs since we've got independence; still how long?... Is, unfortunately, one of the questions being posed with no positive answers and outcome left. Are we comparing ourselves with those who are already developed or with those who are under-developed?. Our wonderful politicians don't keep us updated with new techniques and methods to have them implemented in schools and colleges.
Q: What is your qualification?
R: B.Tech.
Q: What are you?
R: Customer-care Executive.

Let's See the above...

The qualification of the person has nothing to do with the job the person is doing.
What is the purpose of education?. This is what's going on in our country. The study field and the job field has a lot of difference. What are schools doing these?. It all depends in students' interest, parents' involvement; active or passive; institutions' maintenance of quality while giving the quality stuff to its benefactors (students) for what they are paid. But it again reflects on the nation's disability in giving its students what is best. Egoistic feelings among politicians and  social groups installed in some families or indians' minds keep our present youth from learning the best or at least something better. A real learner learns any good even from an enemy. Are we? Are our children taught to learn alike?. A real education is a moral food. Do we know ow how many are taking are that as a poison?

Mr. Ashish Bhatnagar UNV: There are numerous such examples.... Raghuram Rajan, Nirmala Sitaraman,. And many more

Mr. Paul Moses UNV: I appreciate them for they belong to the past. We are in the present world. But examples of?. We need the examples of those who work according to what they aimed at. Very few are there. I still doubt if you should say there are many. What is our population? How many complete their Degrees,  PGs and Ph.Ds.a year?. How many do possess research minds?. How many are involved in the research process?. How many scholars are discouraged by their guides while in the research completition?. How many are able to get their doctoral degrees successfully without being harassed by their guides or professors?. Out of those many (if yes), how many are worthy of those doctorates?. How many research minded children are developed by our schools and colleges in our country? How many of them are encouraged to ask questions? How many of such questions are tolerated?. How many good citizens have we made so far? A citizen is a responsible person for the place, district, state, Nation and society he/she lives in.

Challange 5

Marking  system for marketing in Education

One of the main problems with our Indian education system is its marking system.

The intelligence of the students is judged by the way they perform in a 3 hour theoretical paper rather than by their overall performance in the class.

In such a scenario, learning lessons to get good marks becomes the sole aim of the students. They are not able to think beyond it. They are not bothered about understanding concepts or enhancing their knowledge all they think about is to look for ways to get good marks.

Another problem is that the focus is only on theory. No importance is given to practical learning.

Our education system encourages the students to become bookworms and does not prepare them for handling the real problems and challenges of life.

Academics are given so much importance that the need to involve the students in sports and art activities is overlooked.

Students are also overburdened with studies. Regular exams are held and students are scrutinized at every step.

This creates acute stress among the students. The stress level of the students continues to grow as they advance to higher classes.

The scores are one of the main criteria in marketing the school for its existence. The teachers and leaders are evaluated by the way of secured scores.

All other activities are of no use Infront of scores and all other facilities are unimportant if the scores are good. Fee structure is fixed by the scale of scores.

The vision and mission of a school take last bench Infront of the score.

Totally all over development of a child is restricted to the scores.

Now here are some
WAYS TO IMPROVE INDIAN EDUCATION SYSTEM

Some of the ways to improve the education system are, focusing on skill development; it is the time for the Indian schools and colleges to stop putting so much importance to the marks and ranks of the students and focus on skill development instead.

The cognitive, problem solving, analytical and creative thinking skills of the students must be enhanced. Imparting practical knowledge, practical knowledge is very important to develop a thorough understanding of any subject.

However, our Indian education system focuses mainly on theoretical knowledge. Revising the curriculum, the curriculum of our schools and colleges is the same since decades. It is the time to change it as per the changing times so that the students learn things more relevant to their times. Classes on developing good communication skills as it are the need of the hour.

Looking beyond academics, the education system of our country must look beyond academics. Sports, arts and other activities must also be given importance to ensure the all-round development of students.

Certainly there is a way in NEP 2019.

Jinn in Islam

INCREASE KNOWLEDGE

There are 3 types of Jinn as described in the following authentic Hadith:

The Prophet Muhammad (saws) said:
"There are 3 types of Jinn; One type flies through the air, another type consists of snakes and dogs. A third is based in one place but travels about."
◼Tabarani and Buhaqi

Jinni: Is a term used by the Arabs to refer to one Jinn.

The 3 types of Jinn are as follows:

1 Amir: (Resident Jinn) used to mean that he is one of those who lives with people.
2 Shaytan: Used for a Jinni who is malicious and has become wicked.
3 Ifrit: Used for a Jinni who is stronger and more powerful than a Shaytan.

The way of life for the Jinn is just like Human Beings. For Example: they are accountable for their actions, just as Human Beings are.

Allah says in the Qur’an:
"I created Jinn and Mankind only in order that they might worship Me."
(Qur’an 51:56)

There are believers amongst them, who will be rewarded, and disbelievers, who will be punished, as they admit in the following verse from the Qur’an:

"And indeed there are amongst us, Muslims and amongst us, wrongdoers. As for those who accept Islam, they have sought out the right path. And, as for the wrongdoers, they will be firewood for Jahannam."
(Qur’an 72:14-15)

Whenever Allah sent a Prophet to mankind, the Jinn of that time could also receive his message. Thus, some Jinn came to Prophet Muhammad (saws) one night and he recited Qur’an to them, and taught them about Islam.
(Narrated Muslim)

Materialistic Marriages

Materialistic Marriages

Dear Brothers in Islam:

One of the major destruction to 21st century marriage is social media counselors, articles, posts and testimonials.

Marriages is not about how beautiful she is, or how rich she is, or who her family are. It is about how good she is internally and spiritually.

An internally good woman can save you from hellfire and she has the power to change the society from bad to good.

When she produces children, they are the future Aalims and sheikhs.

Beauty is an illusion, so choose for character.

Likewise
Dear Sisters in Islam:

A wealthy man should not be your concern. Because we have seen many wealthy men, but all they give their wives is tension, headaches, and troubles.

Also don't go for his family background or heritage.

Now unfortunately, people are rich, but you don't even know how they accumulate their wealth, halal or haram. Sisters, wish for a gentleman, who is humble, kind and generous, God fearing and spiritual.

He might not make you rich, but he can make you happy forever. And in jannah, he becomes your King and you His queen.

• Some wash their husband's clothes and it works for them. Others don't and amazingly it works for them too.

• Some cook for their husband and it works for them. others don't and shockingly, it works for them.

• Some are full time house wife and it works perfectly for them. others are not and trust me, it also works for them.

• Some know their husband cheats and it works for them. others don't know and don't want to know and it works for them.

• Some contribute to the upkeep of their home and it works for them, others don't and it also works for them.

• Some are in distance relationship and it works for them, others are in a close relationship and it works for them.

• Some sleep in the same room and it works for them, others don't and amazingly it works for them.
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Every relationship works and will only work if everybody understands that no two marriages are the same, no two individuals are exactly the same, and no two situations are exactly the same.

Even when the situations are the same, the individuals are not and even if the individuals are the same,  the circumstances surrounding those marriages are not the same.

We come online daily and read tons of articles about what people do in their marriage, the one that don't wash is calling the one that Washes a slave, the one that washes is calling the one that don't wash bad marriage (wife) material.
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*One of the major destruction to 21st century marriage is social media counselors, articles, posts and testimonies.*

◼What works for you to be happy? 
◼How sure are you that the person you are copying is happy?

My dear, you are not mad, you are not a slave, you are not rude for seeking happiness.

One of your major goal in life  is to seek happiness and peace of mind in your marriage, it can only be gotten if you understand that even if you are world class 1 married to world class 1 you are not the same as your neighbor that her husband also bears her husband.  You are different and unique in your own ways.

Please while you read things online. Please know what works for you. It might sound stupid to others but provided you have peace of mind and you are happy, please stick to it.

Everyone has their own share of challenges that come with marriage and everyone has their different approach to it.

If you must copy, know what you are copying, know who you married, know you are different.

Your marriage is not second hand, fake or outdated because you are not doing what people online says they are doing.

How sure are you that they are doing it? Some will tell you to quit but they have been enduring for years even when theirs is worse than yours.

Please have a mind of your own, know you are different and seek for peace of mind and happiness in your marriage.

It all depends on what works for you.

The Extractions of The Noble QUR'AN

The Noble QUR'AN says:

Don't lie (Q22:30)
Don't spy (Q49:12)

Don't insult (Q49:11)
Don't waste (Q17:26)

Feed the poor (Q22:36)
Don't backbite (Q49:12)

Keep your oaths (Q5:89)
Don't take bribes (Q27:36)

Honour your treaties (Q9:4)
Restrain your anger (Q3:134)

Don't spread gossip (Q24:15)
Think good of others (Q24:12)

Be good to guests (Q51:24-27)
Don't harm believers (Q33:58)

Don't be rude to parents (Q17:23)
Turn away from ill speech (Q23:3)

Don't make fun of others (Q49:11)
Walk in a humble manner (Q25:63)

Respond to evil with good (Q41:34)
Don't say what you don't do (Q62:2)

Keep your trusts & promises (Q23:8)
Don't insult others' false gods (Q6:108)

Don't deceive people in trade (Q6:152)
Don't take items without right (Q3:162)

Don't ask unnecessary questions (Q5:101)
Don't be miserly nor extravagant (Q25:67)
Don't call others with bad names (Q49:11)
Don't claim yourselves to be pure (Q53:32)

Speak nicely, even to the ignorant (Q25:63)
Don't ask for repayment for favours (Q76:9)
Make room for others at gatherings (Q58:11)

If enemy wants peace, then accept it (Q8:61)
Return a greeting in a better manner (Q4:86)
Don't remind others of the favours you done to them(Q2:264)

Make peace between fighting groups (Q49:9)

*The best rewarding messages you can ever send are words of Allah and divine moral teachings*

A UNIQUE ROLE TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY AT HOME IN RETURN FOR PARADISE.

A UNIQUE ROLE TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY AT HOME IN RETURN FOR PARADISE.

We all know in Islam that marriage is an act of worship and managing your marriage well can easily earn you PARADISE especially our sisters.

 The task of a wife is to maintain and take care of a husband. It is not an easy undertaking. Those women, who are unaware of this feature of their role, may find difficulty in fulfilling the task.

 It is a job for the woman who is aware that the job requires a degree of sagacity, style, and ingenuity.

 For a woman to be a successful wife, she should win over her husband's heart and be a source of comfort to him.
She should encourage him to do good deeds while dissuading him from bad ones.

 She should also provide adequate measures to maintain his health and well-being. The results of her efforts are directed towards making the man into a kind and respected husband who would be a proper guardian for his family, and a good father from whom the children would seek guidance and respect.

 ALLAH, the All-Knowing has endowed woman with extraordinary power. The prosperity and happiness as well as the misery of the family are in her hands.

 A woman can turn the home into a lofty paradise or a burning hell. She can lead her husband to the peak of success or the dregs of misfortune.

 The woman with the qualities bestowed on her by ALLAH, who is aware of her role as a spouse, can elevate her husband to a respected man even if he had been the lowest of all men.

 "One learned scholar wrote: 'Women possess a strange power in that they are able to acquire whatever they desire'."
 In Islam, taking care of one's husband has an important position. It has been equated to the role of Jihad (holy war in the path of ALLAH). "Imam Ali (a.s) stated: 'The Jihad of a woman is to take care of her husband well'." Allahu Akbar.

◼So sisters, please do your best purely for ALLAH sake seeking PARADISE as your rewards. Ensure you win his heart to the home by dressing decently all the time, ensure your hair is well maintained all the time, speak with respect and be submissive never be aggressive as that's not the nature of a woman.

◼For my brothers, your care, actions etc can easily earn you all the above qualities from your wife but make a mistake that you are the boss, you will loose all these and your home will become a place of hell.

May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect our marriages from any satanic influences. Aameen

TWENTY REASONS WHY YOUR DAUGHTER SHOULD WEAR HIJAB

TWENTY REASONS WHY YOUR DAUGHTER SHOULD WEAR HIJAB

1) It’s a sign of physical obedience to the commands of Allah.

2) It conceals your shape and body.

3) It protects your tender skin from the scorching ultra violet rays of the sun.

4) It conceals your body from mosquito bites and mosquito music.

5) It conceals your body from the eager eyes of strange men.

6) It helps men to lower their gaze.

7) It conceals your beauty from the gaze of Jinns and Jinn attacks.

8) It shields your skin from dust.

9) It protects you from cold.

10) It reduces heat by providing a spiritual AC for you.

11) For a woman who wears hijab, socks, gloves and niqab, no one will know if she is fair or dark.

12) It conceals your inner garments and makes them last longer.

13) Hijab shields your ‘Awrah when you mount your husband’s power bike in public.

14) Hijab increases your shyness, modesty and Taqwa.

15) No one knows if you have a bow leg, K-leg or yam leg except you.

16) It makes you stand out in a crowd because you are one in a million.

17) No suitor can even see your body until he takes your father/guardian’s permission.

18) Hijab earns you respect, hence people call you “Hajiya” even if you have never been near Makkah; they call you “Mallama” even when you are still struggling to learn the Arabic alphabets; people make way for you, even conductors don’t mess up with you.

19) Wearing a hijab is like wearing a verse of Allah.

20) The hijab is the best ID card directly from the Lord of the worlds.

*Brothers and sisters, please take note!*